People judge others. Well, that's what they do. Who else would judge, except The Almighty of course. The thing is whether our judgement influenced by others or something. Is it? Let say biases; any psychological and emotional state of someone. Does this gonna affect your judgement?
People say don't judge a book by its cover. Don't judge a person by their looks. Then by what mean shall we judge others? Their heart? Their attitude? OK, these will only applicable to those who are close to us, then we can assess through. But what if for stranger? Are we gonna interview everybody, or make an announcement; looking for a pattern on how they react? Then, don't blame people who judge you by the way you dress, the way you look, the way you walk, or even simply stereotype you just because of nothing.
For whatever mean the judgement is made, by the correct or the opposite way, please don't make it public. It is just like spreading a virus. Especially those emotionally influenced judgement. Just because your views are emotionally different, there is no need to tell the public or others on how it affects you. Common lah! Some things are meant to be kept to ourselves. Our misjudgment may affect others feeling too.
And please don't judge others feeling through written media. How can you tell their feeling by the sms, messages, letters, chats? You'll never know. The words they used? Nah! That's not the way to do it. You may misinterpret the message. The less the word used in their replies doesn't mean they are arrogant. Maybe they are occupied to reply with such lengthy-messages-as-you-expected!
Even worst when people judge you when not even single words come out from your mouth. Keeping ourselves quite does give an impression to these people. When we articulate, something might weent wrong by the words, sentences or tones we used. But when by not saying anything still giving am impact, something is wrong with you Judge Dredd!!
