sudden? shock! why? try..

just as sudden! what a sudden! such a suddden shock! what a shock!
things change. keep on changing. ongoing process. on and on again.
i wonder why. in our much praise and anticipated life, these so called sudden changes happened. i do understand, as time goes by, things change. as time goes by, peoples change. the thing that wonder me the most while i'm wandering is that how sudden these thing could happen. it could be to anyone.
keyword = sudden.
why is it so sudden? while there's no warning alarm such a tsunami siren in Japan, you'll be left blank and wondering what had just happened? then later you realized that everything is over. done deal. finish. the end. stop sign. a dot in front of your face. while nothing you could do. to overcome them it was too late yet neither chance for redemption nor corrective action. for any errors.
is it a fair deal when you encounter such terrible yet horrible change? you start to lose, your routines, casualties, the "usuals" and could it be your mind, maybe? the unexpected sudden which i personally couldnt handle.
guess kenny, remy, martin had taught us before by their song "suratan atau kebetulan". if you guys still remember the initial lyrics "sesuatu yang tak disangka, seringkali mendatangi kita". those from late Gen X'ers and early Gen Y'ers would probably know this song.
is there any way to stop these things? any way to handle them? anything that can be done? any how to deal with? or is that just it?
again, i wonder why we should stop trying. life is all about trial and error. you never know whats gonna happen next but at least things in front of you, right in front of your face could be much appreciated. grateful. plan and keep on trying. no matter how much time and space you had wasted. it will never be a waste in life if you keep on trying. tired of trying? that just mean that we dont try that hard. till when? till we reach our goals. till we step on our objectives. till we are on the next phase of our lives. till we become the most determined we could ever be. life..