what happen when you took a cramped packed bus full with people on a daily basis

The more we think about others, the more we suffer. Could this be true or is it just another reason for being ignorance and arrogant?

There are times when we could, in fact should help others. Being someone to count for, shoulder to crying for, a dependable dude, a responsible citizen, a friend to share cries and whines. A helping hands for those who in need, the seniors, crippled and handicapped, young kids, and the poor and so on.

However, there are times for you; the time when you think of yourself; the time of your own. It's not trying to be selfish nor self-centered but just putting yourself as number 1, the top on the list; the highest priority. You must think of yourself first, as the most important person in your life. Your needs and wants are to be fulfilled first then for the rest. Your own self satisfaction is to be reached; your personal greed. It would be such a waste of resources if you couldn't even fulfill your own wants. In fact, how could you managed to help others if you, yourself is in need?

Keeping your mind too much on others will give some bad effect; where you could lose your direction and major focus on yourself. Meanwhile, thinking of yourself all the time will lead to a bad perception, and maybe loosing some respect from others; when you getting the phrase like "such a non-considerable dude!"

After all, you are who you are. You are the boss of yourself. The choice will always be yours. It's just a matter of choosing the right path and bear with the consequences. The question is, whether it worth the effort.. It's your call!!

So, should I give my seat to them?